PATARIMAI LB
Most associations have a logical path of accension (into management)
for new members (e.g., post-1990 types) or younger members (e.g., those
not born in LT or GER). 2. I have seen no long-term plans for JAVLB goals
or growth (NATO/EU has overpowered everything). 3. I still see LB
activities as ""reactionary"" (worked well during the fast changing
1988-1995 years, but is no longer enough in the 21st century). Stai mano
du centai.
First things first: we need to open a wide discussion what is the LAC
all about. To upkeep everyday needs of its members is the necessary and
the major purpose of the LAC, but it lacks any more inclusive definition
and the vision for the future. Many (especially the young) people do not
see any distinguished difference between numerous American community
organizations and the LAC. Moreover many American organizations offer even
more opportunities to advance in everyday life for the being. Our major
task I believe is to envision the highlights of the future (it's
especially important for young people), to expand the vision of LAC as a
prominent organization of American society with attractive force to
involve more people (not only Lithuanians!) into LWC movement. We need to
become an open, evolving and integral organization to overcome the
extinctive mood of self-esteem. Thanks for this survey. I think it could
become a very promising start for community-wide discussion of LAC mission
to revive the active involvement of constructive and creative people.
Local LB should include reps from active organizations...parapijas,
scouts, Ats
Find a role for LB that most understand and will accept
LAC must always strive to stay current with the changing interests and
makeup of the community ( ie new immigration & baby boom/ genX) Survey is
good, maybe more two way communication is better.
Do what you do better, not necessarily more.
Pick ONE goal. If you try to please EVERYONE, your chances of success
will be very low. FOCUS and your chances are good.
Please do not let certain hostile opinions take up space in the press.
These few agitators do more damage than any personal experiences, because
then only the urban myths remain. The LB should bring in only truly
dedicated people (third wave) who have no hostility issues with the
dypukai. Best of luck, they're out there!
The gap between the ""waves"" is very much dependent as to the region.
In some places it is not very noticeable and some places it is a major
disconnect. It depends on the type of cultural / intellectual education
these individuals arrived with from Lithuania. What can LAC do about it?
Maybe to create and maintain a list of known ""bad apples"" and share it
within the community to help avoid/prevent trouble?
I am committed to this community, but don't always feel welcome and
would be interested in making it be a more warm and welcoming place for
different groups of people. I think that this survey is a great first step
and would be interested in knowing your long-term strategic plan. I also
know that these struggles are the same that happen in other ethnic
communities. The key is to recognize that and be mindful in the future
roles and activities. Much of the community for me is about friendships,
and finding a way to keep the connections strong and still open for new
friendships is critical.
I thank you for not settling for the status quo, but to look for better
ways of doing things. This is the best indicator of the future of DCLB
I've seen in a while.
I think they are doing just fine already.
Role: to keep Lithuanian culture and traditions. Provide a social
outlet. Opportunity to speak ones own language.
JAUNIMO ITRAUKIMAS
Increase the participation of younger generation, i.e. those born in
USA and the new immigrants.
LAC, Inc. continues to pressure other American-Lithuanian focused
groups to ensure the involvement of the youth in the United States.
However, how is the youth supposed to feel welcomed and wanted if the
focus is not directed towards them but rather the focus is directed
towards those living outside of the United States. We live in the United
States, not some place else. If you want the youth to be involved to
ensure the survival of the Lithuanian culture, then start focusing more on
them and not those who reside outside of the states. Stop stating that you
care about the Lithuanian youth in the US because it is clearly shown that
fundraisers, donations, and other events are designed to help those in
other countries. What about financially helping the youth organizations
here without questions asked. You wonder why the youth doesn't attend
events. They don't have enough money! Most are college students who are
trying to get high educations to get better jobs in this country. I belong
to many Lithuanian youth organizations in the US and it is sad to see the
youth disappear due to lack of attention and focus on them. You may ask
then why do I continue to belong to such organizations? I continue to
belong because I am not about to see people who don't know anything about
today's youth make the youth disappear. I know of one particular
organization who has worked extrememly hard to revive the youth's
involvement. Yet this organization receives negativity from the second
wave generation and other organizations because it does not agree with the
same goals as other organizations (such as raising money and focusing on
the youth in other countries, and not agreeing with political issues).
Instead, it focuses on the needs and wants of the youth here in the
states.
Instead of blaming the youth for being uninterested, why don't you
think about how you can make them interested. It is disappointing to see
that the youth is looked upon as the downfall when in fact the youth is
not at fault. Who is? Think about it. Help. Don’t blame.
Support young people educational and cultural activities.
I think getting involved more with the jaunimo sajunga would be
beneficial. The youth are the future, and without them then any activities
JAV LB does is useless. Allow the younger generation to participate in LAC
management. Accept their opinion occasionally even if it does not match
our own. At least study why the younger people often stay outside the LAC.
I think its been concentrating too much effort on Politics. Its support
for its own youth espcially american-lithuanians appears rather small
compared to its support for lithuanians of other countries (including
lithuania). Although this might not seem to be the to to those in charge,
as a member of american youth organizations, I feel like I am constantly
asked to raise money and do stuff which doesn't come back to me in return.
As a successful student with good income potential, I feel i'm not going
to support the Lithuanian American Community, Inc now or in the future -
as it no longer represents ""local"" issues (even though it pretends too).
It appears beuracratic and self supporting with only meager support for
True ""Lith-Americans"". When they say the youth is the future - they
better think twice about why the youth isn't involved anymore. I bet the
youth is interested. But i'll bet they’re ignored.
CENTRAS IR NE CENTRAS
Kulturos Taryba turetu daugiau demesio skirti pakrasciams, o ne vien
tik centrui. Skirti lesu atlikejams is Lietuvos apsilankyti ne tik
centruose. Nesijaucia jokio rysio tarp centro ir kitu bendruomeniu.
Recognize that there is life outside Chicago. Involve the younger
generation residing elsewhere in the country - encourage 30-40 year olds
to get involved in LB, not just at the local level, but also at national.
They say all politics is local. The needs have to be met on a local
level. What is a burning issue in Chicago may be a non-issue in Seattle.
How the LAC can improve in a given location depends so much on the pool of
people available, the facilities available, the perceived needs of the
members, etc. etc.
Do more to attract people living further away from Lith centers.
LB should make a greater effort to involve Liths living outside (and
far from) the traditional ""ghettoes"", like Chicago, Philly, etc. Other
than that, Gecys administration is doing a good job.
VEIKLOS DARBAI
Each Lithuanian-American Community Chapter should have officer in
charge to organize help needed for new arrivals (apartment and job search,
basic information about community, etc)
Butu puiku jei kokie sporto, ypac krepsinio zaidimai butu tarp sakykim
Lietuvos bendriju is ivairiu miestu. Pavyzdziui Seattlo Lietuviai pries
Vancouverio, Portlando ir t.t.
More advertisement to the outside-many Lithuanians do not know that our
community exists or that we really have a lot to offer. More parking for
cars.
Start volunteer groups for certain activities, who can be asked to
participate when needed
Use older generation volunteers to do projects to record the history of
the 2nd wave of immigrants, their cultural achievements and their
collective memory.
Make an inventory of our cultural possesions, like churches, buildings,
Lithuanian Clubs, Libraries, Archives, and make sure they do not get
discarded. Support those that are worth while, and close or sell those
which have become a burden.
Need stronger political lobies to obtain finances to keep our cultural
activities going. We need to find finances available at the State
Department and Congressional level.
Jeigu Lietuviu Bendruomene (LAC) rimtai nori apsiimti JAV politine
veikla, tai Bendruomene (LAC) rimtai financiniai paremtu is pasamdytu
profesijonalus dirbti savo bustine Vasingtone. Kol kas, tas nera daroma.
Kol tas nebus padaryta, Bendruomenes (LAC) JAV politine veikla nebus
rimtai priimta Amerikos Kongreso rumose.
Have a professional paid executive director to co-ordinate activities,
etc.
Proper role: Develop an English-speaking component of LB, then develop
a weekly English-language section of ""Draugas,"" so that all Lithuanians
read the same paper.
Lithuanian American Youth Association is important to me
I would be really nice to have very strong Lithuanian communities,
where people could help each other in a lot of different ways, like
employment, immigration, connections, you name it. Informal picnics where
everybody brings food and drinks, socializes in a relaxed atmosphere, is a
wonderful idea.
I think the Lithuanian American society should have more sport
activities. (Besides Basketball)"
We would like to come together for another Song Festival in the United
States since we participated in all of them held her in the US. Good
article was in Draugas
It would be interesting to see rock groups and other performers from
Lithuania, Lithuanian movies and also a place to buy Lithuanian products
(besides amber, etc)
Need Children's athletic program in the Pacific North West (Seattle and
other cities).
Seems not everyone can or wants to make a time commitment. We are only
Liths on weekends, which time we have to share with family and personal
errands. This lack of time may never go away. One thing that may help is a
center that is open on a regular basis -- this of course is very expensive
since no one can really be expected to volunteer their life for the cause.
It would be nice to have a center with paid staff. Just an idea.
I think the role of the community is to provide opportunities for
lithuanians in the area to keep in touch with their national heritage by
providing ways to participate in traditional events/activities and meet
other lithuanians.
I would like more facilitated small group events where we have a topic
to discuss (not necessarily political), or maybe even a book club,
establish play groups, babysitters exchanges (I don't have children but
know that some of the new Liths don't have anyone to leave their kids with
and they can't go out for a night on their own). On that same theme, what
about small group nights with Lithuanian videos or capitalizing on the
expertise of people in the area-- not just politically, b/c I feel this is
covered VERY well, but what about other people's talents.
How about social groups/dinner parties for younger individuals,
hands-on classes (like marguciai, cooking, etc), I would recommend
nametags and more introductions. At events, invite people to greet their
neighbor, etc. Invite people to serve on an organizing committee for one
event (not just to be an exec member) this would encourage people to take
on some leadership but not feel obligated to dedicate tons of time. I
think there could be more focus on young families and having venues for
them- this attracts kids and the parents meet. This is esp true for those
who don't send their children to Sat. school.
RYSIAI IR INFORMACIJA
I think that would be good to take the information when somebody is
living in USA (maybe in the USA Embassy?, when they ask about visa?) . I
knew about your organization only now and I live in USA almost 1 year.
How about providing a simple service letting you know where other
lithuanians are in your area. Kind of like classmates.com where you can
find past classmates and communicate. That starts the process of getting
back together and possbily forming new groups.
As nesu lietuvis, bet gyvenau lietuvoje dviem metams. As tik noriu
laikitis savo rysiu su lietuva. Ar yra vieta man jusu bendruomeneje?
We should be able to access a directory that tells us what Lithuanians
live or work by community. Help to build networks and support.
I think it would very useful to create a communication network, where
people would be able to express their concerns, share their thoughts,
extend themselves to help and to support each other.
Maybe a step would be to establish a plan and invite people to share
talents in an informal setting (for example at people's homes -6 people or
so). I never feel I have the opportunity to meet and develop relationships
with people on a deeper level b/c the events tend to be larger (or at
least the ones I attend) and not knowing people creates distance among the
community.
How about setting up home stays: where new Lithuanian immigrants can
stay in the homes of longer-term residents and experience new cities, new
lifestyles, etc. while the ""old-timers"" can brush up on their language
skills and get a better idea of what ""new"" Lithuania is all about.
Making contacts is key to survival/success. Let's start a
home-stay/exchange program which can include both recent immigrants to the
US staying in a US Lithuanian home, as well as hosting Lithuanian
citizens, and vice versa: American Lithuanians will have a place to stay
in Lithuania (rather than burdening their relatives who still live there).
An exchange ""bill board"" could be posted on the web. Screening of the
households/exchange folks could be an issue, but not an impossible task.
Provide information via nat'l mail/email list about upcoming
activities, eg, summer camps (Dainava or others), language classes, etc.
Perhaps organize local communtites to offer housing or other contacts to
people visiting/ attending classes.
A calendar of events for the year would be helpful in order to plan in
advance (I understand this is difficult sometimes) however, picnics, 2/16
etc the dates could be set aside in advance more so people could put them
on their calendars.
KALBOS KLAUSIMAI
Goal is to keep Lith culture alive in USA. Many mixed marriages - kids
don't speak Lith. Can't someone make/sell a language learning CD/DVD for
computers to appeal to younger kids.
I'm a 3rd generation American, proud of my heritage and interested in
Lithuania and related activities. I can get by in Lithuanian but am the
only one of my 10 cousins who can do so. All Lithuanian clubs and
activities I've been involved in tend to dismiss the American-born
Lithuanian. By the very questions you ask, e.g. relations between the 2nd
and 3rd wave, it seems not much has changed, despite the fact that this
survey is in English. Pretty soon there will be no 4th wave of immigration
and we'll all be 2nd and 3rd generation Americans who speak English and
know little of our heritage. What is the LAC doing to plan and embrace
this inevitable future?
Please address needs of families where one of the parents is not Lith.
For example, nothing in this survey gives me the idea that this issue is
being considered.
SO MANY LITHUANIANS HAVE ASSIMILATED INTO THE AMERICAN LANGUAGE THAT
KEEPING THE LITHUANIAN LANGUAGE AND CULTURE ALIVE IS INCREASINGLY
DIFFICULT. THE NEXT GENERATION OF LITHUANIANS (THOSE WHO WERE BORN TO
LITHUANIANS WHO CAME AFTER WWII) ARE NOW HAVING CHILDREN AND CANNOT
THEMSELVES SPEAK LITHUANIAN VERY WELL. WITHOUT BEING ABLE TO COMMUNICATE
IN THE NATIVE LANGUAGE, IT WILL BECOME THAT MUCH MORE DIFFICULT TO
MAINTAIN THE CULTURE. KIDS FIND IT TOO CONVENIENT TO SPEAK ENGLISH AMONGST
THEMSELVES AND THE PARENTS DON'T ENFORCE SPEAKING LITHUANIAN. AT THE
MOMENT, I DON'T KNOW IF THERE REALLY IS ANYTHING THAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT
THIS, UNLESS EVERYONE BECOMES FULLY AWARE OF THE DYING LANGUAGE. AT THAT
TIME, THOUGH, IT MAY BE TOO LATE. I HAVE HEARD THAT SOME HAVE SAID THAT IT
WILL BE THE WAVE OF NEW LITHUANIANS COMING TO NORTH AMERICA THAT MAY SAVE
THE LANGUAGE, BUT THEY ARE SO HUNGRY FOR AMERICAN INFLUENCE THAT I SEE IT
ONLY AS A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE THEY START TO COMPLETELY ASSIMILATE INTO
THE AMERICAN CULTURE THEMSELVES. IT IS UP TO THE INDIVIDUAL AND THE VALUES
OF THE INDIVIDUAL TO KEEP THE LANGUAGE ALIVE.
As a 3rd generation american of Lithuanian heritage, I find it very
frustrating that there is almost always an assumption that everyone at a
Lith community event speaks the language. I wish I did but I don't.
I am also raising our daughter bilingual and would very much like for
her to participate in the Lithuanian community and hope that she feels
comfortable there. Activities for children who are not fluent in the
langauge are necessary to make them feel welcome, involved, and connected
with their heritage.
My parents were immigrants and I was born in the US. I have married an
American, and I know that he feels uncomfortable going to some of the
events (he does not speak the language). It would be nice to have
activities for ""mixed"" couples or a group we could join with people in
the same situation. That way, we could enjoy the events, and he wouldn't
feel like such an ""outsider"". At the same time, I don't want to feel
like a 2nd class lithuanian b/c of our situation.
I have a hard time relating to current issues facing immigrants-- I am
the great-grandson of ""first-wave"" immigrants (ca. 1910). I enjoy
listening to Lithuanian folk groups like Sutaras, Jievaras, Ula, Vydraga,
etc. and would like to get them to perform in the USA. I am also trying
(slowly) to learn the language (although it's extremely difficult since my
grandparents passed away). I thought the organization might be a place to
meet others to speak with (practice).
My wife is Lithuanian, I am not. The local Seattle community and
Lithuanian cultural events provide an important outlet for her. This allow
me to practice and keep up my Lithuanian language skills.
I also think that some of the problems with keeping younger people is
that they have spouses who may not speak Lithuanian and how do you work to
make it inclusive. That said, the new Liths may have Eng language
difficulties.
LIETUVIU BANGOS IR LIETUVYBE
The Lithuanian American Community consists of a great deal of
Lithuanian Americans (probably, predominately) that preceeds either of the
above mentioned groups. If you don't have something of interest to them,
your numbers will be very limited.
Establish some type of forum for open discussion between the two waves
of immigrants and finding common ground. We need to understand each other
better to eliminate the ""we"" and ""them"" feeling.
In my experiences, there is no interest on the part of the 3rd wave to
interact with the 2nd wave. The 2nd wave are viewed as 'Americans' by
native Lithuanians. This can limit the interest and desire of the
descendents of the 2nd wave to spend their free time pursuing Lithuanian
activities. Why invest your energy into a group who views you as an
outsider when there are so many other, more rewarding, things one could be
doing.
I think the Lith community is only as strong as the sense of community
on a local level because that is where we live. Locally here in WA state
we have an incredibly diverse Lith population comprising old/new waves and
many ""mixed"" families. I would characterize our relations as mostly
harmonious and always vibrant. I know it personally enriches my family
life, and we treasure our involvement in the Lith community. Nationally we
can pay dues etc for betterment of Lietuva, but lietuviai in Lietuva
should concern themselves with the running of the country, for us in US I
see a continuance of honoring heritage as primary, and not political
involvement.
Teach the new immigrants about religion and moral values. Entice them
to join the church as a regular member, not only on holidays.
The differences between the two communities of immigrants, in the way
of thinking and understanding Lithuanian history, Lithuanian culture, and
in evaluating the period of the Soviet occupation, are too extreme and
irreconcilable.
I believe that the relationship differences between the different waves
of immigrants is a normal and natural and not necessarily negative
phenomenon that will occur because of cultural, financial, social, ethical
and yes - age differences.
Nereikia sitaip skaldyti bendruomeniu ir skirstyti i pirmos ar antros
kartos emigrantus.Visi lietuviai.
My grandparents immigrated before WW I so there should be a question
about relationships of 3rd generation descendants of immigrants with
current immigrants.
MOST IMPORTANT IS THE NEED FOR LITHUANIANS OF ALL BACKGROUNDS TO WORK
TOGETHER TO HELP PROMOTE COMMUNITY, INSTEAD OF USING LITHUANIAN
ORGANIZATIONS AS A TOOL FOR STATUS AND SELF-SERVING PURPOSES. UNLIKE THE
JEWS, WHO ARE EXCELLENT AT SUPPORTING ONE ANOTHER NO MATTER WHAT, WE
LITHUANIANS ENJOY HURTING, EXCLUDING, AND DE-MORALIZING ONE ANOTHER. IF WE
ARE TO KEEP LIETUVA ALIVE WE NEED TO WORK TOGETHER.
RATHER THAN ISOLATE AMERICAN LITHUANIANS FROM LIETUVA, WE NEED TO FOCUS
MORE ON CREATING EVER CLOSER TIES WITH LIETUVA. THIS, IN THE HOPES TO
ATTRACT THE FLOW OF PEOPLE MOVING BACK TO LIETUVA TO WORK AND LIVE.
LIETUVA WOULD GREATLY BENEFIT FROM YOUNG INTELLECTUALS AND PROFESSIONALS
RETURNING TO LIETUVA.
I grew up thinking that my parents, my sisters and I would return to
Lithuania. We were raised as refugees, not immigrants. I think that
immigrants who come now should plan to stay and become Americans. They
should assimilate. Otherwise, their children will have a horrible
experience as I did. We were neither here not there. When I go to a
Lithuanian function, I feel sad afterward. It's okay for all of us,
immigrants included, to learn Lithuanian history and know as much of the
language as we can manage. But we should aim at becoming like
Greek-Americans, Italian-Americans etc. We should not be singing the
Lithuanian national anthem as ""our"" anthem. America is our tevyne.
KITI KOMENTARAI
Become more of 21st century organization, we all know who we are-
Lithuanians, and we all know where we live - USA. There is no more of a
need to prove our identity Therefore, more global thinking would allow us
as Lithuanian American community to become more influential in general
thus helping us to achieve common goals concerning our issues.
I think that this survey idea is terrific, and will look forward to
learning of the results. The questions are the right ones, and the answers
could be a springboard to formulate effective policies, programs,
approaches. Good luck with your work!
Have some of the older people (70-80 years old) resign their leadership
positions so we could organize our activities on a more meaningful and
useful basis. Give them medals and keep them on advisory status, rather
then creative activity organizers.
Lithuania is FREE..I'm tired of still living in a ""Lithuania-1935
mentality"" here in the USA. I'm tired of ""dypukai"" telling me what is
""lietuviska kultura"" and ""whats is not"". Time for LB to ""get real""
and represent todays Lithuanian culture, which is not all pop and rock.
Instead of bringing old has been choirs and opera singers, why doesn't
anyone bring current Lithuanian theatre to the US? Why do I have to drive
to Toronto to see a Eimunto Nekrosius play?