Rasa Ardys-Juška, Editor

P e r s p e c t i v e s

The month of June has traditionally focused on ending the school year — both American and Lithuanian Saturday schools; eagerly preparing for the summer camps and programs; and attending the last events, such as the Mass and program honoring those who were deported to Siberia during the terrible days in June in the 1940s.

My parents would often tell us about the events of the Siberian deportations. Since my uncle and grandmother had been exiled to a Soviet camp, the subject was close to home, and my parents were intent in making us understand the horrors and trials my own relatives and friends had experienced. It was right to know this. Yet, it took away from a great day of celebration — Father’s Day.

Although it’s almost embarrassing to admit, we girls, more often than not, only remembered Father’s Day as we glanced at the Sunday paper. In a rush we’d color cards, greet our father with profuse hugs and kisses, and became accommodating when we were not normally so. Somehow Father’s Day was not as festive or glorious as Mother’s Day was. Yet, that’s the way my Father preferred it to be. Or so it seems now in hindsight.

My father’s soul always was and is centered on the Lithuanian spirit. As a child, I remember the fervency with which he involved himself in Lithuanian-American community matters. As I grew older, our discussions about Lithuanian matters at the dinner table at times extended into the night. Now, when I visit with my family, we all prepare ourselves in advance for the stimulating conversations ranging from Lithuanian history, politics, literature, to personal experiences. All these conversations and discussions have enriched my life and, now, my sons’ lives.

My father has never wanted a one-time-a-year card and tie. He’s just always wanted to be able to pass on to us the Lithuanian ‘dvasia’ (spirit) and watch it blossom in us and our children. That seems to be when he is most happy. Aciu, tete, we feel truly blessed by you.

Happy Father’s Day to all fathers everywhere!